tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post7994009285446532414..comments2023-09-23T12:13:10.019+00:00Comments on December Quinn, Erotic Romance<br>Stacia Kane, Sexy Urban Fantasy: Be a sex-writing strumpet Pt 17Staciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07969399927758009095noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-90560337422664569692008-08-19T14:12:00.000+00:002008-08-19T14:12:00.000+00:00Oh yeah, angry sex, make-up sex, I've been deploye...Oh yeah, angry sex, make-up sex, I've been deployed for six months sex (all 5 seconds of it), and seconds sex. All shorter than the foreplay because of the foreplay. -V95Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-8329793772201896542008-08-19T12:46:00.000+00:002008-08-19T12:46:00.000+00:00Lol, Kis, although I know Bernard is too smart to ...Lol, Kis, although I know Bernard is too smart to try it, I can't help but wish he would, don't you? :-)<BR/><BR/><BR/>You know, Charles, I never thought of it in those exact terms, but you're totally right. The orgasm is the least interesting/exciting part of writing sex, proportionally. But hey, in books everyone gets to have one, which is unfortunately not true IRL.Staciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07969399927758009095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-30313194689601031102008-08-19T05:39:00.000+00:002008-08-19T05:39:00.000+00:00It's interesting how the important part of writing...It's interesting how the important part of writing about sex is the foreplay, while the climax plays a much smaller role than in real life. I never really thought about that.Charles Gramlichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02052592247572253641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-84503820381570938112008-08-18T20:03:00.000+00:002008-08-18T20:03:00.000+00:00I totally agree, fighting about feelings--especial...I totally agree, fighting about feelings--especially if those feelings are something they've been suppressing for any length of time, can erupt into sex. Although trying to kiss a woman who's pissed because you still haven't cut the freaking grass prolly wouldn't get you the response you're after, lol!kirsten saellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02778076783406073225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-55717664916286358622008-08-18T16:27:00.000+00:002008-08-18T16:27:00.000+00:00Thanks guys! And yep, Bernita, it should be anyway...Thanks guys! And yep, Bernita, it should be anyway. :-)<BR/><BR/>Lol Bernard. I think it depends on what they're fighting about, what the subtext is. Fighting about who left the cap off the toothpaste and whether ot not they ALWAYS do that and it's so inconsiderate is probably not conducive to sex. But fighting about what their true feelings they won't admit actually are... Maybe.Staciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07969399927758009095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-77871033892162286992008-08-18T16:07:00.000+00:002008-08-18T16:07:00.000+00:00'Love is a Battlefield' at times, and with some pe...'Love is a Battlefield' at times, and with some people. I would have trouble writing a scene where my hero endures a woman up in his face as Gruffydd does in your scene. I've often wondered how many love scenes in reality ever start with a screaming fight, as they so often portray in books and movies. My experience with women mad enough to be yelling in my face involves walking away. :)BernardLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09722619048888613647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-69380417980113399742008-08-18T15:46:00.000+00:002008-08-18T15:46:00.000+00:00Right you are, because, when you come down to it, ...Right you are, because, when you come down to it, good foreplay is suspense.Bernitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05264585685253812090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19623437.post-53840346064907418982008-08-18T15:17:00.000+00:002008-08-18T15:17:00.000+00:00you are right, everything leading up to the 'momen...you are right, everything leading up to the 'moment' can be seen as foreplay... great post!laughingwolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08873675614347328116noreply@blogger.com